Tuesday, 9 October 2012

its all in the past

What you are today is simply the reflection of what you have been through in all these years that you have lived. Okay, so you failed , you lied or were betrayed, but does any of it matter now?? No, it doesn't!

The best way to move forward in life is to make your failures your strength! Many a times you must have cried at nights.For everyone of us there have been some incidents , that would give us sleepless nights and won't let us move forward. For instance, getting choked in public speech, an almost accident while you were practising driving,failing to crack an interview, being rejected by your love, death of a dear one, all these things change our perception on life and of ourselves.We might never gain the strength to stand on that stage, or drive again, love again or we may lose confidence in ourselves or people or even god at times.But you know what, time heals it all. No matter how deep the pain is, its starts to hurt less as the time passes by and you can actually gain your strengths back.

Don't let others decide your destiny, be your own master. Put your foot down and swear to yourself that you won't ever lose your identity because of some incident that you couldn't control. Let them make fun of you or point fingers at you or question you but remember you are not answerable to anyone but yourself. If you stop now, and hesitate to do what you gotta do, time may pass and all you could do is regret later.

Whatever you are weak at, face it and don't run away cause fear dies as soon as you face it. The worst that can happen is that you might fail once, twice, thrice or even more...but that shouldn't change you because there is no one single way to live life or succeed but there are a million ways ..you just need to explore it for yourself and find the one that best suits you.

The best way is to move forward without looking back as you will always find something better in future. What's most important is to know that nobody's life is perfect but those who seem to be perfecting their have found the secret to control themselves, live a certain way that they chose to live and not letting external influence who they are and what they do.

Its most important to be you!

hello

New beginnings !

Life is all about starting and doing things for the first time. Its my first time starting a blog. I have always thought of it but since I am lazy ass,  delaying it was natural.
I am not sure what to write about, but I am certain that my blog would include all things close to my heart, from my likes and dislikes to my achievements and disappointments, about people and experiences, difficulties and my understanding of life. I still dont know how this blog thing works so this is all about my first post.
:)